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Dirty? Why not Just Clean it?

Gross? Not sure. It depends on how you look at it. But nevertheless chances are you are right. I had bought the cup anyway, so I had to try it. It felt like a first day of bikini waxing. A little awkward but then still curious enough to just want to go on. I believe in the menstrual cup, but let’s just say I will need some time to get used to it. So I went back to my tampons for a while. This time round I changed my brand from OB to Cotton. Believe me I am not the kind that promotes products. Unless it’s so irresistible. I found out that the Cottons tampons are only made from 100% natural cotton. Cottons tampons are also hypo-allergenic and biodegradable. Wish I had discovered this a little earlier. Nevertheless, now I know. So, I had to share the good news with someone. Who best fits than someone who has been forced to stick with you for more than 8 hours a day by a simple pay check? So I pull out a small well packed tampon box to show her. It did not bother me that I had some
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NOT NOW...

[Photo Coutesy of Google.] So it is 5 th June, it’s summerish in New York I thin k. We touch down at JFK at 6:55am or about local time. Never mind I still call it JKIA every so often because that’s where I frequent most. I am excited and anxious at the same time. It’s been a 15hour flight and to be so sincere , I can’t feel my big toe. I just want to get out of this freaking big plane and breathe some fresh air. So I walk past the flight attendant at the exit door and in a small scared coarse voice I whisper to myself, “Welcome to America Village Girl.” I then walk behind this particular lady whom from a distance seems to be nice. She was seated across my wing in the flight, between a black old lady and a Mzungu guy. Everybody is walking very fast. Why on earth do people walk that fast after alighting from a plane? Let’s just assume most of them have connecting flights and the rest of us are just scared of being left behind. Deep within, I am sure this lady is going to help

The Pulpit Half Truths– Love God, Go to Church, Just don’t be Clueless!

There are several things we have believed from our childhood that make us strongly hold on to beliefs without questioning the fundamental truths. Some are partially true while others are way misinformed. They have made many young people to question the good in the gospel since they are picked from respected forums in our society. I am a strong believer in the power of a supreme God and I strongly recommend everyone to have faith in God. To know God at a personal level as well as to question what they do not understand. This will be an added advantage to you in navigating through tough times in this life. Some of these beliefs sound so godly at times however they are not the gospel truths. It is very dangerous to believe everything you get to hear from any pulpit without engaging your brain and the knowledge you have on the same. God has given you the will to make choices under the sun. However, it is common to see people expecting God to make decisions on their behalf in the name

Goodbye 2016 - Not Without Some Appreciation

Dear 2016, Wow, it’s just a few hours before we bid you goodbye and as a tradition I have to appreciate you. Let’s just say you have been really fair.  I really don’t want to complain too much about you. You took a good friend in the beginning of the year. However. In you I got some of the best memories to keep for a life time! From the many coffee dates with loved ones, to Mt. Kenya challenge to the MM walk…to grandma’s Birthday, to awesome road trips with friends…! Above all I am glad I touched a few lives, traveled, loved, laughed, made new friends, lost, experienced Gods faithfulness and above all got lots of good memories which are more than the bad one. I would indeed be a liar if I said you didn’t slap me on my face with a few surprises. Manze especially the last quarter of the year. Let’s say I was not ready to spoil my year. So yes I paved way for myself in the midst of the many arrows and here we are. I am sure you too underestimated me too. We both can lau

The Controversial Bill - Sexual Consent Age

Dear FIDA, Greeting from the Village Girl! Straight to the point! I am extremely disappointed with you! This is what I ran into on 27 th December 2016 from the Star. “ The Federal of Women lawyers has defended the controversial bill that aims to lower the age of sexual consent from 18 to 16 citing that it is meant to protect teenage boys. ” Just before you think I do not understand where you come from, I got it very clear! Very clear and to say the least I am equally concerned about the teenagers whose lives are wasted in the prisons. However I do not understand why you had to support the reduction of the Sexual consent age!!!  It bothers me a lot. As a young girl, I was not ready for sex at 18 years old; forget the age of 16 years. My body was changing rapidly, my hormones overpowering me, teenage hood was not easy for me! I did not know who I was and what was good for me. I had all these men and boys interested in me! It was fun…But I just needed the attention an

JAMES QUEST R. NZUKI -The Reminiscence

JAMES QUEST R. NZUKI The Reminiscence August 2013, I heard about James Quest…! A few days later I received his first email     “ quest@james-quest.com ” and yes I confirmed who I was about to meet.   “A white guy in skinny jeans and high level self confidence” . At lease I was not wrong on the self confidence. James Quest, Photographer + Filmmaker <quest@james-quest.com> Hey Dinah Thanks for the invite, my apologies for the delay in replying. It would be an honor to join you for your pitch. Count me in. Also, this might be of interest to you: check out a book called PITCH ANYTHING by Oren Klauff. Amazing guy this, with immense World experience and proven ideology on pitching. You might find it useful. Am working out some logistics as regards DareToFearLess and I shall be coming back to you asap to follow up on your willingness to participate. It’s great to hav

Friendship is Valueless

Do not get offended just because it rained in the morning and you did not have a car to take your to work. Rather appreciate the fact that the weather was not 40c . It could have been worse. Now this is just as it is . The same sea that can be breath taking today can still turn out to be a tsunami tomorrow. That's just the way things are. The same friend that was happy for you yesterday could turn out to be your worst nightmare at some point. My point ; just smile despite all. Look at the positive side of events. Look for a different boat to get to the other side. Do not allow things that are beyond your control to hold you hostage! Take that leap of faith and set yourself free. And while on the other side mind your own tiiiiii business. Life can be tough at times. Things may not turn out as we always plan and this can be sightly frustrating. All the same look at the positive side of the situation. Am not down playing some serious facts...of course it is tough when your friend