Ndunge Wa Muthuka (Proudly African)

Hold down your Guns! Yes.   Never invest more than you can ever afford to lose. I do understand the principle of investment but this principle does not always work in the absence of money. When it comes to relationships this principle flops desperately. And I strongly believe there are so many people who have been a victim of this.   Many speakers are experts not because they are genius in their area of expertise; but rather by the many mistakes they have made and the times they have been up and down. Disclaimer; I ain't an exception either .I have learned my share of lessons too.  God will always give you very dear people from family to friends in your life. Real friends in deed; very reliable people to embrace. This does not mean that you will not experience ‘Friends in Need’. They will always be around us. Just be keen to differentiate them. Any time you keep friends in need, you will lose more than you can afford to. Yes you will.   They may never be as really ‘needy’

                                                 FATHER on CHRISTMAS day. Christmas time is always special to so many people in the world. It is the time of the year when you get to see and merry with friends and loved ones. As usual I always love driving to my grandmother’s place. Shopping senselessly and buying everything I come across; either I need it or not (That’s why my love for January has never been real). So this Christmas was even better; I got a chance to drive home with a very special woman in my life. For a cool 1 .5 hour the ‘Matatu drivers’ in me was surpressed by the love of my passenger on board.  On our way home ,we passed by ‘Mzee’s’ home town to pick some fruits ; so I slowed down   and pulled off { wamama kukimbia nayo?} I could barely see anything for they had covered my face with the merchandise. One lady caught my attention though, she called me by my second name which I rarely use ; ‘ Ndunge! Is that you? Mwiitu wa Muthuka! Is that you? You have